Couples compatibility quiz: 24 questions

The questions

1. Texting & calls · How often should meal photos land in the chat? (Sends one every meal / Only when the food is special / Rarely sends any)
2. Texting & calls · How fast do replies usually come back? (Replies almost right away / Within an hour or two / Catches up when free / Often takes half a day or more)
3. Texting & calls · Is a good-night text a must? (Sends one every night / Sends one when it comes to mind / Usually just falls asleep)
4. Texting & calls · Out drinking with friends — how much texting mid-night? (Keeps updating through the night / Texts when it starts and ends / One text once it wraps up / Catches up the next day)
5. Texting & calls · On days apart, how often do you want to actually call? (Calls every day / Calls every few days / Mostly sticks to texting)
6. Close friends · A 1:1 lunch or dinner with a close friend of the gender you’re into — okay? (Does it often, no big deal / Does it, but mentions it first / Only when it really has to happen / Never does it 1:1)
7. Close friends · Drinks alone with a close friend of the gender you’re into — okay? (Goes for drinks, no big deal / Mentions it and heads home early / Only in a group / Avoids those drinks entirely)
8. Close friends · Late-night 1:1 texting with a close friend of the gender you’re into? (Texts any time of night / Only when there’s a reason / Keeps it to daytime)
9. Close friends · Birthday gifts for a close friend of the gender you’re into? (Buys a personal gift / A small e-gift at most / Only chips in with a group / Doesn’t do gifts)
10. Money · How should date costs be split? (Splits it exactly / Takes turns paying / Whoever has more pays more / One person usually pays)
11. Money · How big should anniversaries be? (Goes big — gifts, plans, the works / A nice dinner out / Says happy anniversary, that’s it / Doesn’t really mark them)
12. Money · Day to day, what’s the spending style? (Spends to enjoy life now / Balances spending and saving / Saves as much as possible)
13. Time together · How much of the weekend should be spent together? (Spends nearly all of it together / One day together, one apart / Some weekends yes, some no)
14. Time together · After a draining week, how do you recharge? (Goes out and sees people / Something low-key with one or two people / Stays home alone)
15. Time together · Bringing your partner along to your friend-group hangouts? (Brings them along most times / Brings them now and then / Keeps friend nights separate)
16. Time together · Dates: planned ahead or figured out on the day? (Plans places and times ahead / Sets a rough outline / Decides on the spot)
17. Showing affection · Posting couple photos on social media? (Posts them often / Only for special occasions / Posts hints, never faces / Never posts)
18. Showing affection · Holding hands, arms linked, a quick kiss — in public? (Anywhere, naturally / Hand-holding, that’s about it / Keeps it for private)
19. Showing affection · How often do "I love you" and "I miss you" come out? (Several times a day / Once or twice a day / Only in the big moments / Shows it rather than says it)
20. How you fight · After an argument, when do you want to sort it out? (Right then and there / Before the day ends / After a day to think / Whenever it feels settled)
21. How you fight · Going silent for a while after a fight to cool off? (Never goes silent / A few hours, tops / Can go a day or more)
22. How you fight · Venting to friends about your fights? (Tells friends the details / Only one or two close friends / Keeps it between the two of you)
23. Past & future · When does talking about marriage feel right? (Brings it up early on / After about a year / Waits till it comes up naturally / Isn’t focused on marriage)
24. Past & future · How much do you share about past relationships? (Answers anything if asked / Shares the broad strokes / Doesn’t bring it up)

What to do when your answers differ

Different isn't wrong. The ones to watch are where one of you says it's a dealbreaker. Gunghap Halmae compares what each of you does, what you'd like from the other and how much it matters, then shows your three likely clashes and how to talk about them.

FAQ

Can I take it without my partner?

Yes. Guess their answers, then send them the link later. When they answer, you'll see how well you guessed.

Is it free?

Yes, the scores, matches and clashes are free. A deeper personalised reading is a one-time optional unlock.